What should you include in your separation agreement in Ontario?

December 25, 2023
December 25, 2023 Plat Simionati

What should you include in your separation agreement in Ontario?

Disclaimer: This article aims to provide educational information surrounding separation agreements in Ontario. It is not intended to serve as legal advice. Consult with a lawyer and exercise your discretion before taking action based on the information provided in the blog. 

Welcome to our comprehensive guide on navigating legal separation and crafting separation agreements. Understanding the legal intricacies is crucial whether you’re going through a separation or considering it. At Plat Simionati LLP, we’re here to guide you through this complex terrain and empower you with the knowledge to navigate separation confidently.

What is the separation process in Ontario?  

In Ontario, separation involves several steps to dissolve your relationship smoothly and amicably. 

  1. Note your date of separation. (Read this article to find out why that is important.) 
  2. Negotiate and prepare a separation agreement. 
  3. For a Divorce, file your separation agreement at court.

What is a separation agreement in Ontario?

A separation agreement is a legally binding document that outlines the terms and conditions agreed upon by two individuals who have chosen to end their relationship. This comprehensive agreement serves as a roadmap, detailing various crucial aspects of the separation process without involving the courts.

How do you negotiate a separation agreement in Ontario? 

If you are separating and need to create a separation agreement, you must discuss and agree on its terms first. Ideally, the parties can come together and agree on the terms of the agreement without court intervention. 

Many people wonder if they need a lawyer to prepare a separation agreement. Not necessarily. “Kitchen table” agreements or using a separation agreement template can be legally binding. However, it is generally advisable to seek legal advice. Independent legal advice from a family law lawyer can help you understand your rights and obligations and ensure that you include key terms.  

Many couples also find it helpful to have a third party help with the negotiations to avoid court intervention. That can include mediation or using the collaborative law approach.  

Mediation: This involves a neutral third-party mediator facilitating discussions between both parties to reach a consensus on terms such as parenting terms, support, division of property, and other relevant matters. Mediation promotes open communication and empowers both parties to participate in decision-making actively. (Learn more about whether mediation is the right fit for you here.) 

Collaborative Law: In this approach, each party retains its own lawyer trained in collaborative law. Both parties and their lawyers engage in joint sessions to find equitable solutions. This method prioritizes cooperation and problem-solving, aiming for a resolution that suits the unique circumstances of the separated couple. (Learn more about collaborative law here.) 

What should I include in my separation agreement?

A well-crafted separation agreement can help you gain clarity in several areas. It covers various critical aspects, ensuring clarity and fairness for both parties.

Section 54 of the Family Law Act talks about the terms of the separation agreement. It reads: 

54 Two persons who cohabited and are living separate and apart may enter into an agreement in which they agree on their respective rights and obligations, including,

(a) ownership in or division of property;

(b) support obligations;

(c) the right to direct the education and moral training of their children;

(d) the right to decision-making responsibility or parenting time with respect to their children; and

(e) any other matter in the settlement of their affairs.  

“Any other matter in the settlement of their affairs” can cover many areas. Here are some elements that you may include in your agreement.

Division of Property and Matrimonial Home Possession

Will you sell the matrimonial home, or will one of you buy the other out? How will the remainder of your property be divided? Your property would include your physical assets (car, home, other valuables), as well as your pensions, RRSPs and investments. 

Parenting Time and Decision-Making Responsibilities

If you have children, how will you divide the parenting time? Will you jointly make decisions relating to their care and upbringing? These decisions would include choices around extra-curricular activities, education and moral training, and other elements that you would have in your parenting plan. (Consider our past articles to learn more about your parenting plan.) 

Spousal Support and Child Support

How much will you receive or pay for child and/or spousal support? How long will you receive or pay spousal support? 

Medical Benefits and Life Insurance

We discussed medical benefits in detail here, but will you maintain your coverage upon separation? Regarding life insurance, many couples specify beneficiaries and provisions for both parties or the children.  

Dispute Resolution

How will you resolve future conflicts? Would you head to mediation/arbitration or court? 

Divorce

Is there a timeline for when you would get a divorce? For example, we had earlier considered a scenario related to medical benefits. A separation agreement may outline that neither party may file for divorce for a set period so that the uninsured spouse can retain coverage. 

A well-drafted separation agreement should be thorough, precise, and tailored to the specific circumstances of the separating couple. Consulting an experienced family lawyer in Ontario is highly recommended to ensure all relevant details are adequately addressed and legally sound.

Is my separation agreement valid?  

As with domestic contracts, there are some requirements to ensure your separation agreement is valid. Those are: 

A separation agreement must be in writing

A separation agreement must be documented in writing to ensure clarity and formal recognition.

Both parties must provide transparent financial disclosure.

Both parties are required to be forthright about their financial situations. This disclosure includes assets (properties, savings, vehicles), liabilities (debts, loans), income, and any unique financial arrangements. Full disclosure is essential for the agreement’s validity.

Both spouses must enter into the agreement voluntarily and without any coercion. 

Both parties must enter into the agreement voluntarily and without any form of coercion or undue pressure. Any signing under duress might invalidate your separation agreement.

The parties’ signatures must be witnessed. 

You must have someone witness your signatures when you sign your separation agreement. This is a procedural requirement under Ontario family law.

Working with Plat Simionati LLP – Your Family Law Lawyers 

When working with Plat Simionati LLP for your separation agreement needs in Ontario, we provide expert guidance tailored to your situation. Specializing in separation agreements, our team navigates the complexities of Ontario’s family law, offering comprehensive legal advice and practical solutions to formalize your separation agreement.

At Plat Simionati LLP, we understand the intricacies of drafting comprehensive separation agreements. Offering legal advice and support in mediation and collaborative law, we ensure you’re well-prepared to navigate Ontario’s separation laws. Our experienced team recognizes the importance of a well-crafted separation agreement, guiding you through the process, clarifying legal requirements, and aligning your agreement with your unique needs while adhering to Ontario’s laws.

When you need a separation agreement, we are equipped to provide legal counsel, mediation, and collaborative law services. Our expertise ensures you navigate this challenging terrain with confidence, clarity, and legal soundness.