Legal considerations for blended families: Stepparents in Canada and their parenting rights

May 13, 2024 Plat Simionati

Legal considerations for blended families: Stepparents in Canada and their parenting rights

Disclaimer: This article aims to provide educational information surrounding parenting rights. It is not intended to serve as legal advice. Consult with a lawyer and exercise your discretion before taking action based on the information provided in the blog.

The definition of family has evolved, and blended families have become increasingly common. This evolution has created a host of legal considerations, particularly concerning the rights of stepparents within Ontario’s legal system.

Some stepparents have formed genuine bonds with their stepchildren throughout the relationship. When the relationship ends, what rights and obligations do they have? Is parenting time limited to the child’s biological parents? 

This blog will delve into stepparenting rights in Ontario and how they relate to access. We will answer the following questions: 

  • Do stepparents have legal guardianship over their stepchildren? 
  • What laws govern stepparenting rights in Ontario?
  • What are a stepparent’s legal rights and responsibilities regarding parenting time? 

In our next blog, we will talk about the child support obligations of stepparents. 

To discuss your family’s unique situation and the family law principles that apply to you, contact our team for personalized legal advice.

Do stepparents have legal guardianship over their stepchildren? 

Stepparents do not automatically become legal guardians when they marry a biological parent. They do not inherently have parental rights, but they can become a guardian of their stepchildren. To gain guardianship, you need to apply to the courts and obtain a court order or through adoption. 

What laws govern stepparenting rights in Ontario?

Stepparent’s rights are governed by several key statutes.

The Divorce Act: The Divorce Act addresses child support and parenting matters in marriages. A “child of the marriage” includes those for whom one parent stands “in the place of a parent.” This provision extends to stepparents who have actively taken on parental roles.

The Family Law Act: Similarly, the Family Law Act, applicable in cases of unmarried couples, defines a “child” as someone whom a parent has demonstrated a settled intention to treat as part of their family, encompassing stepparents who have shown such intent.

The Children’s Law Reform Act: In Ontario, the Children’s Law Reform Act further clarifies the legal standing of stepparents where the parties were not married. 

What are a stepparent’s legal rights and responsibilities when it comes to access? 

Overall, these statutes collectively recognize and protect the rights of stepparents who have assumed parental responsibilities and roles in the upbringing of their stepchildren. A stepparent may be granted parenting time to their stepchild if they can prove it is in the child’s best interests. When making a decision, the courts will look at whether the stepparent has acted as a parent to the child. 

Has the stepparent acted as a parent? 

How do the courts determine whether a stepparent acted as a parent? They will look at what is in the best interests of the child. 

Some questions to consider include: 

  • How did the stepparent and stepchild treat each other?
  • What are the child’s views?
  • What was the stepparent’s involvement before the separation or divorce?

Ontario case law: Agmon v. James 

Let’s examine a real-life scenario that sheds light on the complexities of stepparenting rights. In the case of Agmon v. James, a 2018 Ontario case, despite both birth parents initially opposing the stepmother’s access, the court intervened for the child’s benefit.

The father and stepmother had been married for seven years, and the stepmother formed a strong bond with his child. When the marriage ended, the parents refused the stepmother access to the child. Despite limited visits, the stepmother applied for access, emphasizing the child’s bond with her, which the court recognized.

The courts considered the child’s love for the stepmother, her parental role, and the importance of their relationship. The court granted the stepmother access, emphasizing the child’s well-being and his right to essential relationships.

This case underscores the significance of the parent-child relationship that develops between a stepparent and a stepchild over time. Despite lacking biological ties, the emotional and caregiving investment made by the stepparent can carry legal weight in determining access and parental rights.

Maintaining your relationship with your stepchildren after a divorce or separation

Navigating stepparenting rights demands informed guidance. If you find yourself grappling with questions about your rights and responsibilities as a stepparent, or if you’re concerned about maintaining your relationship with your stepchildren after a divorce or separation, seeking legal advice is crucial.

At Plat Simionati LP, we understand the unique dynamics of blended families. Our team of qualified lawyers is here to provide personalized legal advice tailored to your specific situation. Whether you’re seeking clarification on legal guardianship, exploring your rights regarding parenting time, or considering steps to preserve your relationship with your stepchildren, we’re here to guide you through the process.

Don’t navigate these complex legal matters alone. Contact us today to schedule a consultation and take the first step towards securing your rights and protecting your relationship with your stepchildren. Your family’s well-being is our priority, and we’re here to support you every step of the way.