Your spouse refuses to sign a separation agreement in Ontario. Now what?

July 15, 2024
July 15, 2024 Plat Simionati

Your spouse refuses to sign a separation agreement in Ontario. Now what?

Disclaimer: This article aims to provide educational information surrounding separation agreements. It is not intended to serve as legal advice. Consult with a lawyer and exercise your discretion before taking action based on the information provided in the blog.

Separation and divorce can be challenging emotionally and legally. When both parties agree to the terms of their separation, the process can be more straightforward.

However, if one spouse doesn’t sign a separation agreement, it can complicate matters significantly.

Understanding why a spouse will not sign and knowing your options in this scenario is essential to moving forward. We encourage you to contact our team and seek legal advice on your situation. Our team focuses solely on family law in Ontario and can help you move on to your family’s next chapter.  

What happens if my spouse doesn’t sign the separation agreement? Does this mean I have to stop the divorce process?

No, a spouse’s refusal to sign a separation agreement does not mean you cannot proceed with the divorce process. You have options if your spouse refuses to sign. First, let’s try and understand why your spouse refuses to sign the separation agreement. 

Why One Spouse May Refuse to Sign a Separation Agreement

There are various reasons why a spouse might hold back from signing a separation agreement. Common reasons include:

  1. Disagree on the Terms: Your spouse may disagree with the separation agreement’s terms regarding property division,parenting terms, or spousal support. You may need to revisit the terms of the agreement. 
  2. Emotional Factors: The spouse might be struggling with the emotional aspects of separation and may not be ready to formalize the end of the relationship.
  3. Legal Advice: They may have received legal advice suggesting the agreement is not in their best interest.
  4. Strategic Delay: Sometimes, a spouse might refuse to sign the separation agreement to gain a strategic advantage or pressure the other party into concessions.

Understanding these motivations does not make them any less stressful or difficult. However, it can help address the root causes of the refusal and find a way to move forward.

What Are Your Options if Your Spouse Refuses to Sign a Separation Agreement in Ontario?

If your spouse refuses to sign a separation agreement, here are some options to consider:

  1. Negotiation: Going back and negotiating the terms of your separation agreement may be enough to convince your spouse to sign.  
  2. Mediation: You and your spouse may decide that you want a neutral third party to help facilitate discussions. A mediator may be able to help you reach an agreement.   
  3. Going to court: If negotiations and mediation fail and your spouse still will not sign the agreement, you can go to court to have the matter resolved. While this is more time-consuming and costly, it may be the only way to move forward.

Making Sense of Your Separation and Divorce in Ontario with Plat Simionati LLP

Separation and divorce can be overwhelming, especially when a spouse refuses to cooperate. At Plat Simionati LLP, we practice family law and want to help you understand your rights and options. Our experienced team can guide you through negotiations, mediation, or court proceedings to achieve a fair resolution.

We understand that every situation is unique and tailor our approach to meet your needs. Whether you need assistance drafting a separation agreement, negotiating terms, or representing you in court, we support you every step of the way.

Contact Plat Simionati LLP today for more information or to schedule a consultation. Let us help you make sense of your separation and move forward confidently.